There is no true reconciliation in Rwanda.
If any , as you said there is a "one way reconciliation" , or forced reconciliation .Imagine this
An army fighting for power invades a country . In the process , they wipe away the falimy of a young boy (the only survivor) . The young boy , following his neighbors and family friends, flee to Congo , where he is chassed again , under the rain of Katyusha and 105mm , to the Congo forest , then he fall sick .... Some of his friends die , and he was injured , and finally repatriated back to Rwanda .
he undegoes an "ingando" training, where he is taught about the new country policy . He is taught about "loving his country" , he learns how the former regime (back in the time when he lastly experienced peace) was demoniac ! He is taught that history is false ... and then he is sent back to his village.
Back at the village , he see other orphans ("Tutsi genocide orphans") going to school for free , being given all accomodations (from the school fees , matress , books even pens and clothes ....) , while he don't even dream of education , simply because he did not survive the Tutsi genocide .
1. Do you think this kid will make noise , protest , or do anything to claim a fair treatment ?? (How can he do it while the Intore are watching every house of the neighbohood ?? )
2. Do you think when Kagame comes to this village (followed with Kabarebe and other Congo war "heroes") , this kid will not applaud them ??
Sure he will ... !
3. Do you think this kid will not participate in foundraising for helping the "Tutsi genocide survivors" ??
You bet he will try to participate more than anyone else ! Being aware that he has none to speak for him , he will try to stay out of trouble . Azubahiriza gahunda zose za leta !
4. When Kigali Gvt will need to refute the "Mapping report" , do you think this boy will be a key witness for them ???
I bet he will be testifying that "only interahamwe were killed " , and RPA are angels !
5. Do you think this kid will have any way to ask for a proper burial for his family dead back in 1990 ??
No , no no no.... ! Why ??? Think about it .
( Take this hint: How can an Intore ask for a proper burial for people killed by "freedom fighters" ??)
PRESIDENT OF RWANDA PAUL KAGAME PRAISING HIM SELF FOR KILLING RWANDAN REFUGEES